I recently met up with Mai and I am so happy with the progress Mai has made in just 2 months. Ruby her new canine sister has helped Mai to come out of her shell enormously alongside Judy's patience and understanding, giving Mai the space that she needed to start trusting humans.
UPDATE 7TH OCTOBER 2011
Just as Mai's socializing programme was nicely underway she came into season so was confined here for 3 weeks. Initially I saw this as a huge setback but in reality things were very different. Mai changed daily becoming more confident, happy and relaxed. We started some training which she enjoyed although having never interacted with people, the process is quite slow: she had to learn how to learn!
By the time she was able to go out things were very different. Mai stood very enthusiastically to have her lead put on too, no doubt hoping to discover the wonders of the “outside world” with Ruby. She walks beautifully on and off lead perfectly to heal, being a pleasure to walk. It was on this first post-season walk I felt confident enough to let her off lead well into Epping Forest, finding a large open space where I, heart in mouth, let her off. After her initial joy she was very happy to come back by my side - a pattern that has repeated itself ever since.
She responds well to other dogs, especially puppies, allowing herself to be stroked and fussed. I often go up to men asking them to cuddle her (Mai is slightly nervous around men and I want her to realise they are friendly): some have even offered to give me a hug too!
We visited Norfolk and I was able to let her off lead on the beach: she was wary of the water, although she loved the sands. There is a pine forest that runs alongside with sand dunes and high sand bars. Ruby loves to hunt in the woodland there and introduced Mai to the pleasures of chasing anything that moves! When we emerged from the woods I stopped for a moment discovering to my horror that Mai had disappeared. Then, in the far distance I spotted a “yella dawg”. I waved frantically and Mai did a fair impersonation of Omar Sharif in “Lawrence of Arabia” by coming toward me at full tilt full of joy in that she had found a ball!
We went to see Jackie's family and Mai was so delighted: there was no attempt to hide there as she had always done before. We had a great walk on the beach together and it was good to hear what Jackie thought of Mai’s progress. Jackie has been fantastically supportive during the time I've had Mai, and I’m always grateful for her input, help, advice, experience and knowledge.
Mai is a really happy dog now with a very waggy tail. She is far more accurate than an alarm clock by waking me up at 7am daily putting her front paws on the bed and her nose right in my face!
Mai's progress has been remarkable bearing in mind her initial extreme nervousness. I’d like to put this down to my talents as a dog owner, but it is almost entirely due to Ruby's calming confidence, having the most incredible “joie de vivre” in teaching Mai all about how to be a happy normal dog enjoying life so very much. IRR was so right in insisting Mai be placed with another friendly confident calm dog: I am sure that without Ruby’s influence, Mai would not have progressed this far.
It’s so great that IRR have people on hand like Jackie who are so very generous with their time, advice and help towards us 'Goldie Rescue Dog' carers!